위기의 주부들 : Don't look at me -3

위기의 주부들 : Don't look at me -3 [ 출처:http://cafe.daum.net/englishmento/DFgG/99 ]

 

 원본영상(무자막)

 

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 Script

 

Look, I don't know why you want to be emancipated,  [  a person from anxiety[prejudice, slavery]  남을 걱정[편견, 노예 신분]에서 해방하다]            
and I don't know what you've been doing to drive him crazy.               
Bottom line..               
it's over.               
It's now time for you two to kiss and make up.         
And just how are we supposed to do that?               
Here's a thought..               
just look each other in the eye and say, "I forgive you."       
That's your solution?               
It's actually a technique invented by this Dutch therapist.               
I saw him on TV.               
He says, if you verbalize forgiveness,  [① verbalize one's feelings  자기의 감정을 말로 표현하다]             
the brain can trick the heart into letting go of resentment.[a feeling of deep and bitter anger and ill-will      
It really works.               
I did it with our cleaning lady.               
Um, I'm sorry, dad, but
I think my relationship with Andrew is just a bit more complicated than..     
Would it kill you to at least try?               
I'll do it for you, grandpa.               
That's my boy.             
Bree?               
Fine!               
Yes, um..               
so, um, who goes first?               
Either or. Doesn't matter.           
Mom,               
I forgive you.               
Andrew, I forgive you.             
That wasn't so hard, was it?               
Now don't expect to feel differently right away.               
It takes a while.               
It took me a week to forgive Esperanza.               
But now she's like family again.               
Family who stole from us.               
So let's get back to the way we were,               
and forget all this nonsense about emancipation.